| 1. | He gets angry easily. |
| 1. | He likes roughing others up or bullying. |
| 2. | He embarrasses you or makes fun of you in front of others. |
| 3. | Says it’s your fault when he acts like he does because you made him upset. |
| 4. | Makes fun or belittles your accomplishments or goals. |
| 5. | Makes you doubt yourself, makes you feel incompetent. |
| 6. | Uses threats or intimidation to get you to do what he wants you to do. |
| 7. | Becomes even meaner or bossier when drunk. |
| 8. | Uses drugs or engages in risk taking behavior. |
| 9. | Calls you several times a night or just shows up to check up on you. |
| 10. | Restricts your personal life, tries to isolate you from your friends. |
| 11. | Tells you that you are nothing without him. |
| 12. | Does hurtful things to “teach you a lesson”. |
| 13. | Carries a weapon and enjoys showing it off, including pretend firing a gun at you. |
| 14. | Says he’ll kill you if you try to leave. |
